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THIS. IS. NOT. EASY.

There is nothing

nothing

easy about this thing called grief.

Nothing.

But I ask you to please

please

please

say yes

more than you say no.

Say yes to you.

To possibility.

To hope.

To love.

To life.

To healing.

Please choose the light

more often than you choose the darkness.

Not that there aren’t gifts in the darkness.

But it’s often so much easier to find them

the gifts

in the light.

Do all you can to stay in the light.

Please remember that the person you love

so

so

so dearly

lived.

Don’t forget that.

He lived.

She had a life.

Here with you.

And your relationship continues.

Always.

ALWAYS.

Always.

Try not to be so overwhelmed

and paralyzed

and pissed off

that he died

that you spend most of your time

focusing on her death.

Say yes as often as you can.

Choose light as often as you can.

Remember that he lived as often as you can.

Don’t loose her in the details of her death.

This thing called grief is hard

hard

hard work.

But you are stronger than you think.

You have already walked through fire.

There is a new way to do grief.

Please share so the others will know.

My first book

Permission to Mourn

is available at amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Permission-Mourn-New-Way-Grief/dp/1600475655/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8